We recently went to a BBQ organized by Durham Parents of Multiples and I was amazed by how having just a few families there the numbers quickly add up when we are all parents of multiples.
There was a couple there with their 3 month old twins (oh they were so cute and little). I asked them how they were doing and they said good but then kind of looked at each other with a look that I knew all to well.
I told them of our house rule – Anything said after midnight doesn’t count. I think that rule helped avoid many big fights in our house before they started. Things said when exhausted and frustrated tend not to be nice.